random block quote of the day:

"If he is in fact gay, it's exactly this kind of shit that prevents him from being 100% out to the public. That is why gay actors have to 'not talk about their personal lives,' because straight assholes think gay actors can only play gay roles! ... 'I wouldn't find him believable in a straight role' isn't cute. It's not just because you're a slash fan. It's homophobic and it sucks."

(from here)